TYL #4: How to Make Seamless Life Transitions with Ramin Baranpourian
Written by Tracy on 01 Mar 2016
I know… I know… usually Tuesday’s aren’t the happiest days of the week for some, but I’m beyond excited today, because of this podcast I have for you.
About 9 months ago, I reconnected with an old friend. When I say old, I mean fourth grade best-buddies old. This was the good kind of friend who remembered what I looked like with braces and shorts that go down to my knees.
The best part was, he didn’t care.
This friend and I reconnected over the phone while I was driving from Austin to Dallas. During that stretch on highway 35, he told me about his life since we graduated high school. Thirty minutes later I knew two things:
- I would start a podcast.
- He would be on it.
To say that Ramin Baranpourian’s story is inspirational and unconventional would be an understatement. Through trial and struggle, good example and bad, depression and hope, Ramin has charted a course that flies in the face of societal definitions of success and allowed him to arrive at a place where he is “the happiest he has ever been.” Along the way he learned some incredible tactics and hacks for making seamless transitions in life.
He has, in face, transformed in one of the most beautiful ways possible.
My conversation with Ramin was the initial inspiration to start this podcast, so I’m honored to bring that conversation to you today. I hope you enjoy it!
Play by Play
0:30 Introduction by yours truly
1:00 An embarrassing admission
2:00 My history with Ramin
3:00 Ramin’s start up business
3:25 It’s a small world after-all story
4:20 Why you MUST listen to Ramin’s life story
5:25 Ramin’s background story
6:00 From the very beginning
6:45 Why life is not like school
7:05 Starting my own money management company
7:40 A radical change
8:40 Life on an Indian ashram
9:25 What’s good and what’s bad about society
10:50 Ramin’s catalyst to make a radical change in his life
11:00 The real truth about life transformation
11:25 The only two things that cause you to make a change in your life
12:10 Why hating your life is a real trauma
13:10 Why it’s hard to quit even when you hate what you do
13:10 The process of transitioning in life in 2 basic steps
15:30 The step by step process of going from A to B
16:10 The most crucial piece of a seamless transition
17:00 Ramin’s vision for his best life
17:30 The role of prayer, meditation, and spirituality in life
18:20 How to alter your personal definition of success
19:20 Why a $500k salary doesn’t guarantee happiness
20:20 Does consumer culture make us happy or not
21:30 Making values-based decisions
22:10 Ramin’s views on depression and joy
22:50 Finding happiness in simplicity
23:40 Ramin’s “dark night of the soul” and ensuing epiphanies
24:10 How to fight negativity
24:50 Why your passion doesn’t feel like someone rolled out the red carpet for your life
25:40 Small practices that get you through the tough times
27:10 Dealing with change on a personal level
27:50 Why making a plan, even if the plan fails, is worth your time
29:00 Dealing with changes to the plan like the sail on a boat
29:50 The difference between a dynamic, realistic plan and a static, idealistic plan
31:00 Handling your first big failure in life
32:55 How to know if you’re living a lie
35:10 Where on earth do your career ideas come from
36:30 How to make sure that your ideas for your career are viable
38:00 How to dig yourself out of the darkest holes in life
41:00 How Ramin is passing his lessons on to his students
43:00 Ramin’s #1 piece of advice for finding happiness in your life
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